《別讓現在的壞事,趕走未來的好事》壞事總會過去,鼓起勇氣迎接更好的自己
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《別讓現在的壞事,趕走未來的好事》壞事總會過去,鼓起勇氣迎接更好的自己

Written 誠品香港

你今天過得好嗎?今天有什麼事情發生,影響到你的心情嗎?你覺得軟弱無力,對人生總是感到無奈嗎?此時,你需要一個人溫柔地拍拍你的肩膀,輕聲地告訴你:「不要把今天的壞運當作人生的命運,因為壞運通常只是一時的,但一直被它掌管,那就會是一輩子的。」
 
人生的確會遇上不少壞事,總有一段時期,就如水星逆行般,每天都很倒楣,沒有一件順心的事,但請你別垂頭喪氣,因為壞的事終究會過去,等待著你的,會是源源不絕的好事呢!此書很適合正經歷人生低潮的你、面對咄咄逼人的生活或工作的你、對未來感到迷茫的你,作者以極具穿透力的文字和有溫度的日常照片,一字一句地鼓勵你繼續前行,為你打氣,得到重新出發的力量。



作者簡介:艾爾文
 
一名任性做自己的男子,任性到29歲就可以離開上班族生活,達成不用上班的財務自由夢想。體內具有多種能力:快速察覺人心的觸角、超強邏輯分析的大腦、無厘頭偏執的性格、理性與感性兼具的質地,偶爾還會心思細膩到困住自己。

因為遇過一些壞事,所以在心裡積累了許多以淚水與汗水換來的人生體悟。2014年底,開始在網路上分享理財之外的人生感觸,以存有溫度、正面力量的文字,替大家解開現實的無奈,同時也有如知心朋友,一一解答網友面臨人生困境的來信,彷彿一名具有解惑能力的指路者,陪伴大家走過許多無助黑夜。

覺得人生就該勇敢不斷向前、實現夢想。現專心於寫作與投資,定期發表文章於個人網站。著有《你的夢想就是最棒的存錢筒》《下班後賺更多》《從零開始穩穩賺》等書。
 
談自信:做自己,喜歡的自己
 

—「不要費盡所有力氣,卻是成為討厭的自己。」
別花時間去喜歡討厭你的人,他們不會因為你的努力,就停止消耗你;卻會因為你的難過,增加更多所施的力。

 
你曾經因為別人討厭你而覺得難過嗎?人生會遇上各式各樣的人,有的人會喜歡你欣賞你;有的人會討厭你批評你,有的人會帶給你歡樂;有的人會帶給你困擾。遇上這麼多的人,無論怎樣我們都無法滿足每一個人、迎合每一個人,那些討厭你的人更不會因為你做了一兩件事去迎合他們而對你改觀,反而你會因為違背了自己的心而討厭自己。所以,請你做自己就好。
 
談人生:我們都用跌跌撞撞學會,往前走的路該如何選


—「沒什麼好比的,每個人都不一樣,都是唯一。」
不要因為人喜好比較的天性,而陷入無法滿足的陷阱裡。你不是活著要來取悅這世界的,成為更好的自己,才是你要在乎的事。

 
比較好像是人的天性,而從我們有意識開始,「比較」這回事就一直存在。小時候會去比較別人怎麼會有較多的玩具和糖果;學校總是會排名次去比較我們的成績;到長大後,自己會跟朋友比較,看誰的事業更成功。世界很大,也一定有更多比你好的人,「比較」只會令我們一直無法滿足,與其一直比下去,不如專注於自己身上,成為一個令自己滿意的人。
 
談成長:前進,是為了更


—「不是你太晚開始,而是你從不開始。」
我們都在等一個機會,記得機會來時別忘了要上車。
開始總是不容易,但請勇敢的催促自己出發。

 
不知道大家是否也對「開始」這件事有很大的執著,因為怕失敗,所以不是準備得最完美最充足,就不會開始去做一件事,結果很多機會都在「準備中」的期間錯失。人生有很多時候並不是沒有機會,而是總是猶豫不決,因為不願踏出舒適圈,不願去冒險而錯過。沒有一件事能準備得十全十美,只要內心有一刻心動的感覺,就請鼓起勇氣去嘗試吧!
 
談相處:那些藏在人與人之間的微
 

—「別因為他人的一句話,就被奪走一天的好心情。」
別因為批評你的一句話就難過一整天, 否則人生大半輩子, 很可能要在煩惱中度過。

 
就算是多麼堅強的人,聽到批評也未必能置之不理,內心會覺得難受,然後在腦海中回放好幾百次那一句說話,一天的好心情就被奪走了。事實上,我們無法控制別人的嘴巴,要說出多麼傷害人的說話都是由別人決定,但作為聆聽者,我們有權選擇這句話所帶來的影響。面對傷人的話,慢慢調整心情,總會有一天,你會對那些無理的嘲諷不為所動。
 


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