《如果世界是一場派對》與孤獨作伴,在這場派對中翩翩起舞
2021年11月5日
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《如果世界是一場派對》與孤獨作伴,在這場派對中翩翩起舞

Written 誠品香港

如果這個世界是一場派對,現在的你會在做什麼?在派對會場的正中心成為焦點,所有人的目光都在你身上?還是在會場邊與三五知己說笑和打鬧,享受派對?抑或是在會場外,偷偷觀望著裡面的人們,覺得自己格格不入?
 
作者用了幾年的時間不斷嘗試學習與人相處,認識到很多朋友,甚至會主持聚會,但他仍然感格格不入。他開始思考「孤獨」是什麼,認識到孤獨的千百種面孔,於是提筆寫了一封信給它,將自己的感悟化成文字,提醒自己去享受這場名為孤獨的派對。此書分成四個章節,對應四種孤獨的面貌:陌生、格格不入、疏離與被遺忘,一個又一個的故事提醒我們:「雖然生命旅程中必然伴隨著孤獨,但它並不是一種懲罰,而是和自己相處的過程。」
 
作者簡介:街頭故事 李
 
作家/插畫家/社群講師

1997年生,大學四年級時,在一次酩酊大醉中得到了靈感,於是創作了他的畢業專題「街頭故事」,在街頭面對面聆聽了上千位陌生人的生命歷程,並在畢業後繼續以蒐集故事維生,在世界這場複雜的派對中,試著以自己的方式起舞。

著有圖文書《療傷似顏繪》、散文集《如果世界是一場派對》。
 

派對觀察日記 疏離感
 

—世界上最遙遠的距離,不是生與死,而是我就在你面前,你卻只想滑手機。
 
在每一章的開首,作者會分享他從日常生活中所觀察到孤獨的種種面貌,原來這些感覺一直都伴隨著我們的生活,而且是如此貼近。你常常覺得與身邊的人有一種莫名的疏離感嗎?有時是希望有人陪伴,卻沒有人在身邊;但有時是明明就在彼此的身邊,卻感到孤單。
 
相信大家經常遇到的是同桌吃飯的人卻一直在看手機吧,科技的進步好像拉近了人與人之間的距離,但卻令大家不再珍惜在一起的時光,只顧看著冷冰冰的螢幕,令人產生了一種疏離感。下次再和親朋好友相聚,不如放下手機,著眼在你眼前的人,跟他們好好聊天,了解彼此的近況吧!
 
控制
 

—相信自己有選擇的權利,就能逐漸掌握與雜音共存的能力。
 
我們現在來一個小測試,你可以閉上眼睛,暫停想考,放空一分鐘嗎?你或許會發現要清空腦袋裡的聲音真的很難,無論在睡覺前或是在刻意要靜下來的時候,也是很難做到。作者以自己上瑜伽班的經歷為例子,他在冥想練習時總是會因為內心的雜音而分心,無法好好專注,而他的瑜伽老師告訴他,嘗試把那些雜音當成背景音樂,既然我們不能把它完全關上,不如把聲量調低一點,與它共存。
 
日常生活亦然,要相信自己在很多事情上也有選擇的權利,我們未必能把討厭的事情通通變走,但我們能控制它的影響力。
 

有病小聚
 

—沒有人能真正體會你正在經歷什麼。
人有時候比生病本身更可怕。
 
作者在因緣際會下,收到病友社群的邀請,請他主持一個病友活動。他一開始擔心自己未能勝任這個位置,但在聚會中他漸漸體會到病友需要的不一定是語重心長的安慰,而是耐心的傾聽與理解。而對於心理病患,他們需要的更是耐心,而不是對他們作出批判。心理病和生理的病不同,我們不能看到對患者的身體所造成的傷害,所以對這些不能被看到的病都存有很多質疑,因為我們不能真真實實地體會對方所經歷的事,會說出一些傷害人的說話,例如「就因為這些小事而傷心嗎?」、「是不是你太悲觀?」、「有很多人比你慘吧」等等的批評,對患者造成二次傷害。其實比起疾病,我們的批判來得更可怕。
 

很長的路
 

—無論貧富和健康與否,沒有人的人生是容易的。
每個人都是走了很長一段路,才來到今天的。
 
無論我們現在活得怎樣,相信大家都在人生的路上有所付出,有所努力,因為沒有人的人生是容易的。我們往往都會以成就或財富去判斷一個人,但每個人的際遇或機會都不同,有些人的運氣可能比較差,但他可能活得比成功的人更努力。無論如何,我們都是走了一段很長的路才來到今天的,你和我都值得一個最熱烈的鼓掌。
 
 
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《如果世界是一場派對》
作者│街頭故事 李白
出版社│究竟
 
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