《只要好好過日子》 日子不易過,我們更要好好過
2021年7月30日
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《只要好好過日子》 日子不易過,我們更要好好過

Written 誠品香港

每一天,我們都努力生活,無論日子怎樣,都努力地撐著,一路走來,就是為了變得更幸福。生活不是那麼風平浪靜,我們總會遇上很多場風雨,或許要為自己撐傘,替自己遮風擋雨;或許會被淋濕,會跌得遍體鱗傷,但這些都是成長的最好證據。無論日子如何,我們都該好好過,別讓自己在風雨中一蹶不振。


我們都希望平安就好,但生活總會出現無常。所以我們要有本事把無常活成日常。
—阿飛 

此書跟大家談成長、與人之間、愛情、人生、夢想、轉變,每一章一節都以溫柔的文字去安撫你的心靈以及那個正值混亂之中的你,鼓勵你去過好生命中的每一天,即使現在不好過,但一切都會過去,就如作者所說的「只要好好過日子,就能期待好日子。」
 
作者簡介:阿飛
 
年過四十還在努力抓住青春尾巴的大叔。是作家、同時也是行銷人,期許自己從事理性的工作,也能撰寫感性的文字,然後不會角色錯亂 (?)
 
對於人生的見解,或許是經歷不少,給的不是建議,而是經驗分享,期望能透過文字,給予適當的光亮,不是明燈而是陪伴的溫度。
 
著作包括《致 那些事與願違的愛情》、《只要好好過日子》、《開始,期待好日子》、《工作,剛剛好就好》、《別在走遠後才想起說再見》、《#給你的一段話》。


工作價值是自己給
 
—「沒有人的工作是沒有價值的,每個角色都有它存在的目的。除非是你自己把它變得沒有價值。」
 
工作佔了我們人生大部分的時間,有些人以自己的工作為傲,熱愛工作的每一刻;有些人卻會每天抱怨工作沒有價值,如同一個冗員。但相信每一個工作崗位都有存在的目的,都有價值,沒有老闆會花錢去做沒意義的事。你可能會覺得自己的工作微不足道,或者沒有前途,但工作的價值由你賦予,不要輕看自己所做的事。
 
善待別人也是善待自己
 
—「生活已經不輕鬆了,不要再被太多人影響心情,善待那些不喜歡的人,也是一種對自己的善待。」
 
其實討厭一個人真的很花氣力和精神,你會不自覺地更加注意那個人,就算他只有一個微小的舉動,也會令你很生氣,情緒很容易被牽動。明明日子已經不易過,還要浪費心力去討厭人,只會令自己更累,不如放下你對他的執著和成見吧!放過別人,也是放過自己。
 
沒有所謂的個性不合,就只是不愛
 
—「你是因為他的優點而決定在一起,但也有跟他的缺點共度一生的準備。除了懂得欣賞他的好,也要練習忍讓他的不好。」
 
書中關於愛情的文章有很多,但相信最多人面對的是「性格不合」的問題吧!你有試過因為所謂的性格不合而分手嗎?世界上並沒有人是十全十美的,他可能很有成就,但脾氣很差;他可能對你很好,但很悶,同樣地,你的另一半也在包容著你。
 
因為愛,所以接受他的優點,但也要忍讓他的不好,互相遷就,甚至互相改變。一段關係中,只要還有愛,就會不停地配合與磨合,除非努力得很痛苦,或到了忍無可忍的地步才會分開,而「性格不合」往往也只是不愛的藉口。
 
好好過日子就會有好日子
 
—「要相信自己,只要好好的過日子,就能期待會有好日子。」
 
這句說話一直鼓勵著作者,在失意、困惑的時候也要認真地做好本份,照顧好自己,善待身邊在乎你、對你好的人,讓生活慢慢走回正軌,慢慢重塑自己的人生,便能期待著好日子的到來。
 
過多的深思熟慮只會讓自己寸步難行
「如果還不知道下一步該往哪走,那就先把眼前的這一步穩穩踏好。」
 
說到夢想,很多人都會覺得很遙遠,很難實現,而我們與夢想的距離,往往是因為我們的深思熟慮,令自己寸步難行。沒有地圖能教你如何抵達夢想這個終點,也不會一朝一夕便可達成,而是經過長途跋涉、過了無數個關卡才可實現。如果你現在感到迷茫,不知道應該向哪走的話,就先穩穩踏好眼前這一步,日積月累的努力,定能帶你往夢想的方向前進。
 
死亡一直離我們很
 
「生命的價值並不在於長短,而是看我們如何運用它。有些人的生命不長,可是他所留下來的價值卻能長存永久。」
 
10萬典藏紀念版新增了「轉變」這個篇章,作者希望新的文章能夠陪伴我們在動盪的日子走往好的方向,轉變可以是一個契機,讓我們重新出發,走向嶄新的道路。而當中的這一節能讓我們好好反思人生,思考該如何在有限的生命中,好好善用每一天的時間去活出生命的價值。
 
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《只要好好過日子【10萬典藏紀念版】》
作者│ 阿飛
出版社│悅知文化

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